A document of our life with Anders and Kuba, filled with photo's, moments, and stories which capture the essence of our life. Who knew that life with two boys and two moms could be this good, or this nutty?


Ever since our big cookie baking extravaganza at Christmas, Anders has wanted to have a cookie sale. We waited until the weather was nice and we had enough time to bake. So Anders and Kuba helped bake vanilla chip cookies and painted the signs.
Kuba has a thing for ants. We had them in our house this spring and he has since become obsessed. At first he just watched them crawl. He then moved on to trying to pick them up and take them outside. He has since hardened his heart and has started to squash them. Yesterday we spotted an enormous pavement ant colony attempting to conquer a nearby colony. Thousands of battling ants. Kuba was mesmerized. He could not take his eyes off of them and repeatedly reached down to touch the pile of moving ant bodies...sometimes coming up with a finger full of ants that he quickly shook off.
Two years ago Kuba and I were taking a walk around a pond near our house when we spotted a hot air balloon in the sky. It was a perfect summer evening and it seemed as if the balloon was headed right in our direction. I made up a spontaneous little jingle "Balloon, balloon, come over to us!" which we sang and sang hoping to lure it closer. I soon realized that it wasn't headed our way, so I took Kuba and we jumped into the car to chase the balloon. The whole time Kuba and I continued singing our catchy little tune until finally the balloon made a crash landing in a big box store parking lot. It was thrilling. Kuba was only 18 months old and still remembers when the big balloon hit the building. The balloon and everyone in it was fine, but it was slightly surrealistic to watch an enormous hot air balloon floating slowly over a thousand parked cars. We chased a few other hot air balloons that summer and that little tune stuck with us.
Here is Anders' painting. At age six, his artwork is dominated by hearts, family names, self-portraits (see the pink head with and A on one ear and a T on the other?) and his latest interest, cartoons. (see bottom black figure with a word bubble that says "Yeah") This was painted after he painted a heart with the names Kuba and Anders in it. Hearts have dominated his artwork all year, but the cartoon word bubbles are a direct result of his cartooning lesson last Friday at school. I like the line details he has painted into this. I also like the fact that hearts dominate his artwork right now. And I know that I will never, ever get tired of his hearts.
This is the way my three year old son draws and paints. It's like his fingerprint. His three year old style; these shape and line patterns that seem slightly inhabitable, geometric, maze-like, and somewhat alphabetic. It happens on the sidewalk with chalk, on paper with pencil, and here with paint. I love watching him. He has a running dialogue going while he is working. He begins with one shape and then starts making connections and additions. All the while talking about the different spaces and shapes with bridges to connect them. He is aware of the area he has used and the negative space he has not, and works until he is satisfied with the way it has filled up. Totally fun to watch. Do you think his other mother is an architect?
There is only one week of school left and to celebrate, this week was Spirit Week.
Jessie, our beloved babysitter, snapped this photo the other day of Kuba playing up in our barn. He's standing by his kitchen cooking. It feels so magical doesn't it?
A very local very good bakery has taken to peddling fresh bread around the neighborhood. The boys were in the back yard playing when they heard the bread peddler calling. You would have thought it was the ice cream truck by how excited they were. So, we bought a loaf of warm sourdough wheat and immediately buttered a few slices.