Poor Poor Thea

It's been months now that Thea has not been well.  Still, we are uncertain as to what exactly is wrong, but we know it involves pain, sleeplessness, and spinal/neck issues that don't allow her to fully lower her head.  This is after spending thousands of dollars...to only find out what we could easily have told you ourselves.  She has been on pain meds & anti-anxiety meds to help manage the pain.  Our reality, unfortunately is that we cannot afford the diagnostic test and the following news that might involve surgery. We are about to have two kids in college and have many other financial needs that makes us hesitate to use thousands more.  In all honestly, it's been hell.  This began on a Sunday, October 12th.  We took her to the emergency animal hospital, which gave us no good information and sucked thousands of dollars from our pockets.  It's been over 2 months now and it's been a bit of a rollercoaster, not exactly knowing what is wrong, experimenting with meds, and over 70 days of sleepless nights.  Anna's been bearing the brunt of it.  I am not sure at all how this will all end.  There's been more than one moment when we've been sure we were putting her down.   And yet, here she is.  Yesterday she looked great during the day and then again horrible at night.  This is not fun to write, not fun to endure, and so sad for Thea.     
 

And the Stockings Were Hung

 

I love Christmas stockings.  All of ours are handmade and stitched with new buttons and new embroidery every year.  This year, Anders got a little row of ants climbing up his stocking and Kuba got a Pokémon ball. It's all in the details! 

Amaryllis

 

amaryllis

beautiful triplets

unfolding on our mantel

winters red delight

Colors Blur and Swirl

quick twist of the wrist

colors blur and spin, friends laugh  

always so much fun

Holiday Magic

  

2025 was a year of Christmas adaptation.

With Barbro in assisted living, and nearly impossible to move easily, we held Christmas at her place, by reserving a dining room and kitchen.  There we prepared Swedish smorgasbord, sang Swedish drinking songs, and exchanged gifts and glee.  It was actually perfect.  It was Barbro, Dave, Lea and Damion, Claes, Vikki and Janet, and us and the boys. SKOL! 

Christmas Eve 2025

This year we celebrated Christmas Eve with Sandy, Jamie, AJ, Zoe, Kuba, Anders, Anna and me.  We held Wigilia at Sandy's house.  It was simple, relaxing and lovely.  Pierogi, mushroom soup with ushki, fish, and vegetables. So many years of this traditional Polish Christmas, at so many different houses and with such a mixture of family each year. We played games, ate, took a lovely walk in the dark, and exchanged gifts.  Merry Christmas!  

 

Making Food Together

We made lots of food this holiday and the best was when we made it together.

Pierogi, ushki noodles, peppermint bark, pepparkakar, toffee pretzels, bucket cookies, bular, 

and more.  Clearly it's important.