A document of our life with Anders and Kuba, filled with photo's, moments, and stories which capture the essence of our life. Who knew that life with two boys and two moms could be this good, or this nutty?
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Connection Made
It took me awhile, but tonight I think I made the connection.
Anders has been going to an art class at the local museum and for the first two visits the kids have been fascinated with the mummy in the museum's collection. The mummy is lying on it's back, still and quiet. These fears began after the kids spent some real time last Wednesday focused on this mummy. The mummy is not much bigger than Anders. I can totally see how he would feel a connection to this ancient dead mummified body after lying still on the floor in the exact same position.
Not that it makes it any easier explaining and talking to him about this complex and mysterious aspect of life. It makes it even more difficult when you are not a member of an organized religion that certainly can direct conversation about what happens after life. Being a mom is seriously intricate. Piecing together tons of fast moving bits of information to guide you in this often mysterious journey of raising and attending to the emotional needs of your children.
Oh, to be so blessed!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Hammers Are Fun to Play With
But not if you get a nail in your shirt and your body. That's not fun at all.
My Little Baker
Ironically, my little cake and candy lovers told me they were so tired tonight after dinner that they wanted to save the cake until the next day. Weird, right?
So, it's tigger tomorrow. Who knows what it will be the next time we bake.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Drivers Wanted
Anders and Kuba like to drive. Actualy we all like it when they drive. We let the boys sit on our laps and steer while we control the foot pedals. We took them to an empty parking lot to let them whip around on their scooters (with their wild painted faces,) and before long both boys were driving the Jetta. They didn't whip around in the car though - Anna controlled the speed of the car and kept it below ten miles an hour. Anders got a chance to practice shifting gears, and Kuba got to experience how helpful it is to stick your tongue out when you are really concentrating. Bliss, sheer bliss.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
If They Only Knew
I know I don't want him to know of my concern (or my anxiety) so I am keeping a low profile. A fox in chicken clothing - or something like that. Sound weird? Probably. But I do want him to like school and so I watch. It's not easy working in the same school that your children attend.
I get more information than one would possibly want. And if it's not going well...I get to worry a bit. So, Anders, if you are reading this one day when you are a grown up kid, well I just want you to know how much I care about your school experience. So far you seem okay - sucked a little bit of your shirt collar today after school and you haven't done that in nearly a year. I know it's a sign of rising anxiety. But I will keep watching. And I will do all that I can from my parenting side to help you love school, feel good in school, feel happy about school and your place in it, learn a lot, and grow into a really great kid.
For those of you who know me you know I am an anxious nut about my kids.
I am also a devoted educator and mother and want for my child an experience that is empowering. And, I don't have full control. But I do have lots of ways to ensure that he is happy. And that is what leads me. Stay tuned for first grade updates.
Saturday, September 3, 2011
My Favorite Kids in the Whole Wide World
Ain't nothin' better than the Fair
Back to School!
Anders has a brand new teacher this year...she has moved here from California and I think she has a big learning curve ahead of her. His first day back was a bit rough. It is my sincere hope that what he gleans from first grade is simply the joy of learning. I want my children to love school. So, I will offer my support and do what I can from the sidelines. As an educator (with a lot of confidence and opinions about education) you can imagine how hard it is for me to stand by quietly. Sort of not possible at all. But I am kind and I know that I will communicate well, and this relieves some of my own fear about his year.
Kuba's first day back to pre-k was much smoother. Same room, same teacher, same simple routine. Breath, sigh.
So, here's to a happy year at school where learning is exciting and my children are empowered because of the true nature of their little hearts and minds.